Marriage Coaching

Couples Coaching

Couples Coaching

 Husband-wife coaching team
Safe, confidential setting
Create emotional safety
Courageous Conversations
Conflict Resolution
Physical/Mental Intimacy
Emotional/Spiritual intimacy
Building the Empty Nest
Fitting Stepfamilies Together

Group Coaching

Group Coaching

6-week Marriage on the Mend 
Continued growth and accountability
Maintaining Emotional Safety
Understanding Relational DNA
Deepen Courageous Conversations
Guarding Your Marriage Gates
Relationship Boundaries
Marriage Vision and Purpose


Marriage 911

Marriage 911

One couple
3-day life-changing experience
Deeper understanding of self and spouse
Spiritual connection with God
Overcome the Fear Cycle in your relationship
Understand your Relational DNA
Have Courageous Conversations
Resolve Conflict amicably
Set new goals for marriage growth
Renew your marriage covenant

*Marriage 911 is NOT for those in a physically abusive relationship or struggling with active chemical addictions. Any affairs must be broken off prior to the intensive.

Regenerate Retreat

Regenerate Retreat

Three couples – one weekend
Not for couples in crisis
Empower – Encourage – Motivate
Safe group setting
Foster emotional intimacy
Overcome the Fear Cycle
Understand YourRelational DNA
Set new goals for marriage growth

*Regenerate Retreats are not for couples who are experiencing crisis in their relationship and threatening divorce. Refer to Marriage 911.

Women’s Coaching


Individual Coaching

Our coaches provide individual custom designed one-on- one coaching for each woman looking to clarify their life vision or renew creativity in the areas that matter most to you. Whether you are seeking improvement in your own life, or leading a team, they will help you jumpstart your personal and professional goals. They will help you discover how to:

Discover your purpose
Build trust
Resolve conflict
Improve communication
Optimize relationships
Develop overall personal growth
Group Coaching

Group Coaching

Our coaches provide small group coaching for women seeking confidential, empowering, professional coaching relationship to enhance effective and desire outcomes. They will help you discover how to:

Gain perspective of others
Optimize relationships with other women
Build a positive support system
Brainstorm solutions in a group environment
Create accountability with others
Learn to build trust with others
Breakthrough Retreat

Breakthrough Retreat

Weekend intensive for 8 women
Four facilitators
Offered in the Spring and Fall
Safe, confidential, non-judgmental environment
Peer deeply into the Heart
Manage negative emotions
Discard dysfunctional ways of relating
Eliminate feelings of shame and betrayal
Experience renewal with God, self,  and others

Up Marriage Mentoring Program

This program is designed to assist couples in learning how to be effective marriage mentors, coaches, and leaders; couples who want to develop marriage ministry in their local church and community setting.


Program Benefits

• Become the marriage leaders at your church

• Obtain tools to help you in your coaching or counseling practice

• Use this information when speaking to groups about marriage
• Effectively facilitate marriage groups

• Consider offering marriage intensive weekends

•Become a marriage model for others

• Effectively mentor other couples in their marriages

• It will take your own marriage from good to great!

• You will grow stronger in your Christian faith

• Fellowship with couples who are intentional about marriage ministry

 Join the UP Program Today

Make a 12 month commitment to develop personal growth, marriage, and ministry leadership

Program Includes:

90-minute interactive video-conferencing class led by Certified Marriage Coaches, who will teach you everything you have always wanted to know about marriage!


  • Downloadable materials each month
  • Complete Book list
  • Quarterly couple-to-couple coaching call (60 min) with the Marriage Coaches
  • Free registration and lunches for the 3-day leadership retreat (lodging and travel not included)
  • Invitation to serve at a Regenerate Couples Retreat
  • 25% discount on other Breakwater Coaching services


Topics Covered:

  • Searching for Significance
  • Discovering our Strengths
  • The Meaning of Marriage
  • How We Love
  • The Differences Between Men and Women
  • Improving Communication
  • Resolving Conflict


  • Mental and Physical Intimacy
  • Emotional and Spiritual Intimacy
  • Establishing Financial Peace
  • What’s in A Small Group?
  • The DNA of Relationships
  • When Couples are in Crisis
  • Setting Goals

Develop leadership for the next generation

If you have considered starting a marriage ministry at your church, becoming a marriage mentor, adding marriage coaching to your practice, or developing weekend intensives for couples who need help with their marriage, this could be the best investment you will make. For more information, contact Natalya Clemens UP Program Coordinator